uL neVer kNoW...;'c

"'Coz you don't know what you got 'till it's gone"...

Indeed, this statement is true. I did not know what I have until I actually lost it. Sometimes in life, we take the people who surround us for granted. We keep on searching for something that is not there. We keep on looking afar just to look for great treasures, without knowing that the most beautiful diamond is just on the tip of our nose, still we didn't notice.

Ever had this similar feeling? Well, it's kinda common for all of us people, all of us people who love greatly and still can't believe that "it" could have been there. If only we gave proper attention, spent time and really exerted an effort for "it" to grow. Regret is really in the end. But, why suffer greatly? Right? If that person did not end up with us, then, the both of you are really not meant for each other. Why make things so complicated? Why brood over the things that can’t be on your reach? Don’t you think that you really have to let go and move on and instead face the reality that you are not really meant to end up together? It might be hurtful to think of, but let’s face the hurtful reality!

It's so hard to end up in a moment wherein you are arguing with yourself. Or should I say, your mind is arguing with your heart. Your mind wants to compensate all the things that happened and just credit it to experience while your heart doesn't want it that way. Your heart, actually, was trying to teach you that loving is never easy, and once you got hurt, it doesn't mean to say that everything is over, right? Your heart teaches you to hope, to hold that tiny little seed of faith planted inside you. For what? Well, just to help you to be patient and learn how to hold on and wait for that person to realize that it's you or because of the simple fact that moving on is never easy.

Moving on, as they say, is just an excuse for people who got hurt and doesn't wanna love back the person who hurt them. But as how I see it, moving on means letting yourself to be happy and letting yourself to be loved. The kind of love it really deserves.